Better Parenting

Better Parenting

This is one of the most searched and discussed topics among people who are dealing with children, whether they are Parents, Teachers, Caretaker or friends.

Raising kids is one of the most challenging and difficult jobs a one can have. As every child is different similarly ever parent is also different. Their way to deal with the daily challenges with their innocent children is hugely different.

It is every parent's dream to raise a happy and healthy family. They go to every extreme to make it happened. On the other hand many don’t take parenting very seriously they think it is all-natural. Children will learn things by themselves. The question is not about the style of your parenting it’s about the concerns that most of us have with our children.

To be good parents we focus to teach them honesty,
Co-operation, compassion, helping, Good learner, sympathy, Gentleness, Truthfulness, self-confidence and this list is quite long. There is no doubt that good parenting helps child to fight with nervousness, drugs, bullying, depression, and loneliness.

There are many ways to be good parents. Most common in all of them is accepted. While teaching anything to a child parents’ need to provide them an atmosphere full of love acceptance and the behavioral consequences of the child. As it is known that children don’t learn by Teaching they learn by watching and observing. whatever you want to teach them first bring those things in your own behavior. If you will shout in front of them they will earn to shout. If you will ask them not to shout it will confuse them.

On the other hand it is not advisable to be more loving than in a result you spoil your child. Actually it is not at all love which spoils the child they are the things which parents provide them at the place of their love and time. Most importantly be there with your child mentally and physically. Set your priorities. Once they are grown up you can't rewind the time so it is better to manage some time every day to play with your child or listen to what he/she has to say? You should be involved with the child that they will never need to lie to you. You should always be aware that where my child is with whom he/she is, what they are doing .it can only happen when you will tell them where you are going and when you will be back home. They will also for sure share everything with you. Authority comes with wisdom, not with power.

Respect is the most important thing to provide. Always treat your child with respect. Never explain or mention them that you have done so much for them. Always respect their choices and decisions. Treat them kindly and it will automatically teach them kindness.

Parenting can be more interesting if it is done with love, care, kindness, affection, and care. Don’t be so hard either on yourself or on children. Enjoy this period of your life, you will cherish every moment of it later.